Choosing colour wisely...

Many of us cite choosing paint as one of the most intimidating decorating tasks. Although we're always told, "It's only paint", well, I for one don't want to waste the $30 it costs for a gallon and/or repaint a room I've painted in the "wrong" colour. So where do we begin and how do we get a fool-proof colour scheme?

I've said this before, and it bears repeating. Don't automatically head for the multitudes of paint swatches at the paint store. This will only serve to confuse you and the lighting there is almost always different from the lighting in our own homes. To prove this point, select a colour you like in the store, then take it outside the store into the natural light, and it will almost always look quite different. So, the first step I take in selecting a paint colour for my home, is to browse through my decorating mags to find the right look (colour wise) that I want for the room that is to be painted. Don't make the mistake of thinking you can show this picture to your local paint clerk and they will automatically be able to reproduce it. Professional lighting and photography, coupled with the printing process always alters the appearance of the paint colour in the magazine.

Instead, cut out the picture and carry it around your home and/or department/decor stores until you find an item that is the same shade as the colour you desire. If the item is small, it can often be scanned by the computer at the paint store. You can also take the object to the paint store and compare it to the some paint samples. Bring the samples that seem to match the best home with you and see how they compare in the light of the room that is to be painted. If the paint company sells sample, pots buy a few. They really are worth the money as long as you don't go overboard and buy a ton of them. In this case it pays to do your homework before going to the store...

If you have bought a sample pot (or even a pint) of the colour you think matches best, don't paint it directly on the wall, unless you feel like covering over all the colours later. Instead, paint the colour onto a large piece of bristol board and stick it to the wall. Move it around to various spots in the room to see how it looks everywhere. Once you decide on a colour, paint some of the paint on one of those cheap stretcher frames that the Dollar Store sells. They are about 8x10" and are light and small enough to fit in your purse. You can then take it around with you when you are shopping with accessories and fabrics. Such a timesaver...!!

A couple of you asked me about selecting paint colours for children's rooms. I say, narrow down the colour choices to three and then let them make the final choice. Don't give them carte blanche unless they have really good taste or you are a really cool mum. They'll only dig their heels in and make it a miserable experience if you tell them they can make the choice and then change your mind when you don't like that choice!! I say, if you want to find a beautiful, fail-safe colour for your child's room, look no further than Pottery Barn Kids. Have a browse through their kid's catalogue and find a colour you love.

Pottery Barn itself has a great line of paints now through Benjamin Moore. Too easy!! For those of us here in Eastern Canada who don't have a store nearby, many select paint stores will have other paint companies' paint colour codes on file...so we can duplicate the colour right here in our home towns...so sneaky!!

I hope this helps those of you with an impending paint project. I will post at another time, a list of my favourite paint colours. Happy painting!!!

Fantasy vs Reality...


Here are a few pictures of my living room. It is a well used space and we all wander in and out of it throughout the day. Although we have a family room downstairs, we barely ever use it as such. It is a great hangout for the kids, but when we congregate as a family, it is always in the living room. I painted my walls a colour I love...one that has become a new neutral for me. It is called Silver Sage by Restoration Hardware. It looks different depending on the amount of light coming into the room, and although I initially feared it would be too cool a colour, it has been a great fit for my furniture and personality. I am calmed by cool, fresh colours but I didn't want the colour to be too watery as it had to work with each season (although lately it seems like we only have two: winter and not winter).


On the left of the photo is my slip-covered sofa; it serves us well and its linen colour adapts nicely to different coloured pillows. New furniture, for me, is not in the picture for some time, so slipcovering my existing pieces has been a great option. The cream pedestal style table was a happy acquisition for me...the owners of a home we purchased to flip gave it to me. It was a mahogany stain which didn't work with my decor, so a couple of coats of cream paint freshened it up nicely. I am not a purist when it comes to wood. If it works with my stuff I'll leave it; if not, I'm not opposed to painting it. It's all about making it work with my existing decor...and a little cream paint never hurt the look of any furniture piece!

The bottom photos are my fantasy rooms. They have all the components I would love to have in a living room. But, alas, I do not have access to that level of perfection. Budget and practicality with three growing kids makes it unattainable at present. As I've said before, it can be even more rewarding making do with what you have... if you tweak it and use your creative side. It's not always the pursuit of perfection, but the pursuit of happyness, just like in the movie!!

The art of washing dishes

black sink and yellow kitchen from:http://www.dezeug.nl/keuken.asp


I am probably one of the rare few who doesn't mind washing a few dishes. Now, don't get me wrong...I have a dishwasher and use it everyday. I'm not dumb, I know there are better things in life than washing dishes and technology is there to help us. However, if we all had our dishwashers taken away, (GASP!!) I wouldn't be shedding that many tears...or wailing with my sister!!

I was probably a late bloomer when it came to owning a dishwasher. I didn't get one until I was married for six years. We even built our first home as newlyweds without one, as we had to cut corners and that seemed like as good a place as any. Wendy, my sister, would scold me about the ridiculousness of my plight (she HATES washing dishes) and even advised me to buy a portable one that I could bring to the inevitable rentals we lived in between moves!



The years when I washed my dishes by hand are associated with happy times. I can still picture my sons at my feet, driving cars or trains over my toes, and playing hide-and-seek in my skirt (I love skirts!). I always used the time spent scrubbing pots and pans to chat on the phone with a friend and catch up on our days. There was even something therapeutic about staring out the kitchen window in a trance. The warm water felt good on my constantly dried out hands (I refuse to ever wear rubber gloves...too June Cleaver!). I always finished the chore with a good scrubbing of the sink with Comet...that smell will be forever familiar to me. I draw the line at drying dishes...I always fought to get the washing up when I was a kid. There was something satisfying to me about getting the dishes clean...drying them just seemed so dull! And I do like to put my dish soap in a pretty bottle...that idea I got from Wendy!! She truly is the "dishwasher queen" in our family, and did a funny post about that claim to fame. She is a bit obsessive about loading the dishwasher just so. I never load her dishwasher...my nerves can't take it!!
Now that I have, in my opinion, my prettiest sink faucet and view from my kitchen window, I have a dishwasher that I always put to use. I still scrub my pots and pans, of course, but it's not the same. I guess it is a reflection of my lifestyle, too. I have older kids who are constantly on the go, and I have to be ready to go too. I do love my dishwasher...but if it ever breaks down, I won't be frozen in my tracks with fear. I'll just fill up my sink with some bubbly, warm water and plunge in up to my elbows...but not before making a quick call to the appliance repair man. After all, I'm a modern woman aren't I??!!
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